Personal Reflection on Cultural Identity

As an Australian-born Cook Islander, my experience highlights the complexities of cultural identity in a multicultural society. Growing up in Australia, I recognize that 80% of your upbringing differed significantly from what your parents experienced in the Cook Islands. While I'm grateful for the opportunities available to me in Australia, I have often felt a lack of belonging within local communities until I became actively involved in the Cook Islands culture.

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Misunderstandings and Cultural Representation

I frequently encounter misconceptions about my cultural background, often being mistaken for other ethnicities such as Filipina or Thai. When I share that I amfrom the Cook Islands, many people are unaware of its location, leading to comments like, "but you don't look like an islander." Also trying to describe who we are as a people and our culture can be frustrating, especially when I feel compelled to compare my culture to others, such as describing our traditional dance, ura, as similar to Hawaiian hula. I express concern that this approach may inadvertently dishonor both cultures.

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A Vision for Future Generations

My reflections reveal a deep desire for future generations—our children and grandchildren—to have a stronger sense of identity and belonging. I hope they will not have to justify their cultural heritage or compare it to others. By embracing and promoting Cook Islands dance and culture, I believe it is possible to assert that "we do exist" as a distinct people. I see cultural expression as a vital means of raising awareness about the Cook Islands, especially given that the community is a minority in Australia.

Conclusion

My journey underscores the importance of cultural pride and the need for greater recognition of the Cook Islands and its people. Through dance and cultural practices, I aim to foster a deeper understanding and appreciation of my heritage, ensuring that future generations can celebrate their identity without the need for comparisons.